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What’s the Deal with the Vagus Nerve?

The vagus nerve is getting a lot of attention these days, and for good reason.  It is cranial nerve 10 and is an important part of the parasympathetic nervous system, which...

Check Your Lens

The other day, I was heading to my car as I was leaving a beautiful building. I turned around to admire it and soak in the beauty before hopping into my car. After I started...

Life as Cognitive Therapy

Recently, I had a conversation with April Crystal, one of the Cognitive Therapists at CognitiveFX.  During this conversation, April shared many helpful tips on how to use life...

That’s How the Light Gets In

Ring the bells that still can ring Forget your perfect offering There is a crack in everything That’s how the light gets in –Leonard Cohen (from his song...

Traveling After A Concussion

Summer is upon us (for those of you in the Northern Hemisphere 🙂  This often comes with traveling for reunions or vacations or business trips, etc. Navigating airports and new...

Take A Hike

Ok, I understand that whether or not taking a hike is actually an option can depend a lot on your symptoms and capacity at the moment, so you don’t have to take the subject...

Grief

Grief is a topic that can be hard to discuss and hard to understand. It is so personal, and yet almost everyone will experience some degree of grief in their lifetime. Those...

Taking My Own Advice

You may have heard me mention before that it’s important to prioritize your health, and that taking breaks when needed is not only ok, but actually key and vital to recovery...

It’s the Little Things

This will be a short and sweet one. Just wanted to remind you that the little things make all the difference.   The little things done for you: an unexpected gift dropped off...

The Gap and the Gain

Have you read the book “The Gap and the Gain” by Dan Sullivan and Benjamin Hardy?  It’s a good one, and today my mentor, Leah Davidson, shared a very helpful...

Self-Compassion

Why is it that we think we shouldn’t be having a hard time? It’s almost like we think that experiencing difficulty is a sign of weakness or lack of moral/emotional/mental...

Accessing a Higher Power for Healing

Hi there.  I want to share something that I have observed.   Turning to a higher power for help in healing is immensely helpful for people in their recovery journey. This...

Peter Pan Breathing

I wish I could claim to have come up with this name or this technique, but alas, I can only pass this on to you with my deep admiration from Molly Parker, PT, DPT and the Heart...

The 8 Words That Saved My Marriage

Ok.  That may have been a bit of an overstatement but really, truly, this phrase has saved my husband AND me significant amounts of frustration and hurt feelings. And it only...

Chronic Pain

Chronic pain can have a significant impact on peoples’ lives.  The pain is real and affects all aspects of life. Frequently, there is a mind/body component of this kind of...

“I feel like a burden”

This is a concern that I hear coming up very frequently for people dealing with Post Concussion Syndrome, and it’s a concern that I think many people with any kind of injury or...

Resistance

One of my early mentors in coaching pointed out that a vast majority of the issues people seek coaching for are due to some form of resistance of what is happening in their lives...

“My Body Is My Teammate”

Thea James shared this sentiment in our podcast interview this week.  She said that at the beginning of her journey with Post Concussion Syndrome, she would get angry with her...

How to Know When to Push or Rest

Have you ever debated whether you should stop and take a rest break, or push through symptoms and finish what you’re doing? This is one of the most common concerns people who...

Your Worth & Identity Is Not the Sum of the Things That You Do

This may be an easy concept to embrace intellectually, but I have seen over and over again, and experienced myself, the heartbreak and questioning of identity and worth that...

Mindfulness

I love mindfulness because it’s a good brain health practice for everyone, but can be particularly helpful for people dealing with post concussion symptoms. It is one of my very...

Welcome, 2024!

Hi Friends! As we’re finishing up our first week of 2024, I just wanted to pop in and remind us all of the power of our thoughts as we face a new year. How are you thinking about...

Managing the Holidays with a Concussion

The holidays are upon us – a time for joy, family, and festivities. But for those recovering from a concussion, it can also be a season of stress and potential setbacks...

The Physiological Sigh

A number of years ago, we were renting a home and the owner sent over someone to fix the blinds for us. This handyman kept sighing really loudly, and my then-4-year-old daughter...

How to Reduce Noise Sensitivity

Noise sensitivity is one of the most common concerns of people suffering from post concussion syndrome. Sounds can feel overwhelming and prevent people from participating in...

Get Your Butterflies Flying In Formation

I was listening to a podcast yesterday and the guest, Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett, told a story about how her daughter was getting ready for a competition in karate and her sensei...

It’s OK To Not Be OK

My guest on The Concussion Coach Podcast this week shared this thought, and it’s an idea that I’ve come to believe and appreciate over the past few years. I don’t think that...

What Are Your Top 5 Priorities?

Do you ever feel like you’re being pulled in too many directions at once?  Or like you want to do all the things but don’t have time to do any of them?  Or that you have...

You Don’t Have To Like It… But It’s A Lot More Fun If You Do…

The other day my son wanted to do something, and I asked him if he’d gotten his chores and homework done yet.  He started complaining that we have the rule in our house that...

When “Not Doing” Is More Important Than Doing

So many people ask to know what they can do to get better from a concussion. This is a good question, and there are in fact many, many things that can be done to improve symptoms...

Life IS the Figuring

I used to think that at some point I’d get life (the balance of time and priorities) all figured out but I’m discovering that life IS the figuring. Have you heard of the “Conscious...

Serenity Prayer

Today’s post is a short and sweet one.  Just a reminder of some helpful concepts. I’m sure you’re familiar with this, but I think it’s worth repeating and considering again:...

When Your Kid Says, “I Wish I Was In Gus’ Family”

Ah, children. I frequently tell my clients that children can be our best therapists — they will challenge us in ALL the ways — physically (hi, auditory and visual stimulation)...

The Study Tip I Wish I’d Known When I Was in School

With the beginning of a new school year upon us (here in the US at least), I thought I’d share a memory/study tip that I like to share with clients.  This is something that I...

Nothing’s Gone Wrong Here

This is one of my favorite go-to thoughts. It’s believable for me when I zoom out and look at the big picture and remind myself that God isn’t up there wringing His hands in worry...

Befriending Your Nervous System

The human nervous system is wired for survival, and is constantly scanning for cues of safety or danger.  It scans for these cues in the external environment, from our...

Book Recommendations

Hi there! Today I thought I’d share a few recommendations of books that have been motivational and inspiring to me and that have helped increase my understanding of the brain &...

You Are A Human

Remember that you are a human.   Sometimes we forget this and think we should not have human experiences like feeling the way we feel or making the mistakes we make.   We...

Play Time!

This past week I got to go to a destination wedding, sans children, for 5 days. I was surprised at how much NOT being responsible for keeping 6 other little humans alive brought...

How to Process Emotions

I needed to process an emotion today. I used this system and it surprised me yet again at how effective it is.  You process, and it goes away to the point where you can’t feel...

5 Core Pillars of Health

The following are 5 fundamental keys to mental, physical, and nervous system health: 1 – Sleep 2 – Sunlight 3 – Movement 4 – Nutrition/Hydration 5 –...

You Have To Let Go To Be Open

When my son was about 1½ or so, he was playing at home and had a small toy in each hand. I had a toy in my hand that he wanted. I offered it to him and it was clear that he wanted...

Stories vs Facts

Once upon a time, something happened. That thing that happened was just an event in the world — not particularly good or bad.   But then someone became aware of its having...

“Rampage of Appreciation & Positivity”

I went on a walk the other day with a friend who I was just getting to know.  She said, “You have six kids, right?”  I told her that yes I do, and that it’s fun and...

With What You Have Left

I have a friend who sustained a concussion recently, and she sent me the link to a blog post that is short and very inspiring. I’ll include the link to the post below, but here’s...

Monster Spiders & Your Toddler Brain

Yesterday my friend sent me a video. A guy is walking in the woods and another guy sneaks up behind him and attaches a huge fake spider to him. He FREAKS out and fights this fake...

Throw Out the Manual

As I was coaching recently, I was reminded of the concept of manuals, and want to share it here, as I think it is a really helpful idea for all of us, whether we’re dealing with...

Balance Is About Recovery

“Balance is about recovery.” I’m taking an applied neurology course right now and when the instructor said this phrase, I had to pause the video and write it down. So many...

Irritability

Today I spoke to a couple who shared with me that after the wife’s concussion, she was told that she should feel better in a few months and if not, then she should seek extra help...

Be Where You Need To Be

I am going to get a little personal in this post todayI hope that’s ok. The past 3 weeks have been challenging for me in some significant ways. Actually, we only had 2 bouts of...

Good Luck? Bad Luck? Who Knows?

Former monk and instructor of Positive Psychology at the University of Pennsylvania Cory Muscara shared this Chinese parable. I have heard it quoted in multiple places a variety of...

What We Do Doesn’t Matter…

I was coaching a client the other day about some things happening in his family life. As with most clients, he wanted me to help him get clarity on what he should do. And as I do...

Clean Pain vs Dirty Pain

One of the most helpful concepts I have come across, for myself and my clients, is the idea of clean pain and dirty pain. Clean pain is an important part of emotional healing...

In the Quiet Heart is Hidden Sorrow that the Eye Can’t See

This line from a favorite song captures the essence of some thoughts I’ve had today. In speaking with people with concussions this afternoon, I was reminded yet again of how this...

We Find What We’re Looking For

I told my some of my kids tonight that where we focus our thoughts makes a huge difference for what happens in our lives — that our thoughts tend to be self-fulfilling prophecies...

Cues for Mindfulness

We have all heard that mindfulness is important and helpful. (And if you haven’t heard it from me enough, don’t worry — I won’t drop the subject 😉 I frequently tell people...

A Case for Hope

“Maybe we should take a break from having hope.” This was what one man said to his wife after they had another failed attempt at getting her effective help for her concussion...

How to Stop Thought Loops

Have you ever felt like your thoughts keep spinning in circles? Like you can’t stop your brain from continually looping back on the same issue/concern/worry? You’re not alone in...

The Power of Gratitude

The other day, I was putting a mattress cover back on the bed of a kiddo who had peed in it the night before. This is a somewhat regular occurrence, and as I was performing the...

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