“We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us.” –Joseph Campbell This quote resonated with me and reminded me of the conversation I had with Fetirke Deskins recently. She also… Read More »Letting Go
“I don’t like what’s going on upstairs” A few months ago, my 4 year old son, Thayne Luke, interrupted my husband, Thayne, working in the basement to tell him “I don’t like what’s going on upstairs.”Thayne went upstairs with Luke to see what was going… Read More »Funny Story
Spring is a time of renewal and new life. For those in the Christian community, this Sunday is Easter Sunday, which gives added reason to pause and consider life and new beginnings. I hope that you are able to take a moment to listen to… Read More »Renewal
One of my favorite concepts to share is “The 50/50.” When it comes to emotions, there are “good” ones (that feel positive) and “bad” ones (that feel negative). We tend to think that if we are feeling negative emotions, that must mean there’s something wrong… Read More »The 50/50
For people living with long-term concussion symptoms, relationships can become challenging. The relationship with a spouse or partner can be particularly delicate to navigate, as issues that existed prior to brain injury tend to be magnified after it, and a marriage or partnership relationship is… Read More »PCS & Partner Relationships
One of the recurring themes that I have come across lately as I’ve done interviews for The Concussion Coach Podcast is that of support groups. People need people! Healing happens in connection. We see things from different perspectives, feel validated, and know we’re not alone… Read More »Support Groups
This is something that Bethany’s grandpa said when he was in his nineties, and has been an inspiration to her and her family ever since. It’s good advice to be thinking about as we start a new year and take time to reflect on what… Read More »Get Your Priorities Straight, & Apportion Your Time Accordingly
One of my favorite games, which I don’t play nearly frequently enough, is the “I’m Grateful Game.” It’s very easy. You can play it by yourself or with others. All you have to do is come up with as many things you’re grateful for as… Read More »The I’m Grateful Game
The vagus nerve is getting a lot of attention these days, and for good reason. It is cranial nerve 10 and is an important part of the parasympathetic nervous system, which controls the “rest and digest” part of our system. The vagus nerve plays an… Read More »What’s the Deal with the Vagus Nerve?
The other day, I was heading to my car as I was leaving a beautiful building. I turned around to admire it and soak in the beauty before hopping into my car. After I started driving away, I looked at the building again through my… Read More »Check Your Lens
Recently, I had a conversation with April Crystal, one of the Cognitive Therapists at CognitiveFX. During this conversation, April shared many helpful tips on how to use life situations as opportunities for improving our cognitive skills. Here are a few of the ideas and principles… Read More »Life as Cognitive Therapy
Ring the bells that still can ring Forget your perfect offering There is a crack in everything That’s how the light gets in –Leonard Cohen (from his song, “Anthem”) Let these words sink in. It’s a beautiful message, and one that we all need… Read More »That’s How the Light Gets In
Summer is upon us (for those of you in the Northern Hemisphere 🙂 This often comes with traveling for reunions or vacations or business trips, etc. Navigating airports and new places can be hard and overstimulating for anyone, but for people dealing with post concussion… Read More »Traveling After A Concussion
Ok, I understand that whether or not taking a hike is actually an option can depend a lot on your symptoms and capacity at the moment, so you don’t have to take the subject of this blog literally, necessarily. But if a hike isn’t an… Read More »Take A Hike
Grief is a topic that can be hard to discuss and hard to understand. It is so personal, and yet almost everyone will experience some degree of grief in their lifetime. Those suffering from concussions and post concussion symptoms are no exception. The losses they… Read More »Grief
You may have heard me mention before that it’s important to prioritize your health, and that taking breaks when needed is not only ok, but actually key and vital to recovery and continued progress. Well, it turns out that in the past few weeks, I… Read More »Taking My Own Advice
This will be a short and sweet one. Just wanted to remind you that the little things make all the difference. The little things done for you: an unexpected gift dropped off on the doorstep, the flower petals lovingly picked and delivered to your… Read More »It’s the Little Things
Have you read the book “The Gap and the Gain” by Dan Sullivan and Benjamin Hardy? It’s a good one, and today my mentor, Leah Davidson, shared a very helpful way she applies the principles in this book with her clients who are suffering with… Read More »The Gap and the Gain
Why is it that we think we shouldn’t be having a hard time? It’s almost like we think that experiencing difficulty is a sign of weakness or lack of moral/emotional/mental fortitude. So when we are struggling (physically, mentally, emotionally), we tend to punish ourselves for… Read More »Self-Compassion
Hi there. I want to share something that I have observed. Turning to a higher power for help in healing is immensely helpful for people in their recovery journey. This doesn’t mean that the recovery journeys of people of faith are easier or shorter… Read More »Accessing a Higher Power for Healing